Testimonials

At a time, when safety for many is being challenged - This book prescribes using your voice, not allowing labels to define you - your identity is your own. Elbows out. Take up SPACE! “Words have power. They can lift us or tear us down, validate our experiences or erase them entirely…” — Nikki K. Lopez Truth!!!! This message resonates. The impact of words, both in giving and receiving, carry responsibility.

Nicola, just finished it. I feel this book can be for all women! Be our authentic selves, set our boundaries, and more. I feel this short book could be good for all women. I belong to a group on Facebook called My Racial Journey, I am going to recommend this book to that group. We meet every Thursday night. Anyway, we talk about intersections Black and Women and White and Women. Most of us are white that meet but we are all on a journey to learn in a loving space. Thank you for sharing your book and journey. My niece just came out 2 years ago. I am going to share this book with her and her gf. 💙

At 25, I am still figuring out the world and my place in it, and this book opened my eyes. Lesbian: Who Are You? gave me a deeper understanding of identities I do not live but deeply respect. The stories were raw, real, and powerful. I walked away with more empathy, more knowledge, and a reminder that everyone’s journey deserves to be heard.

This was a must read!!!! This book touched on a lot of key points. Alot of what I have gone through or have seen.